Is self doubt ruining your golf game?

Self-doubt surfaces in many ways when you are playing golf. Lack of confidence is one of the beliefs that golfers struggle with. Self doubt is triggered by expectations that are not fulfilled, a bad shot, an unexpected score, a lack of focus and many, many other factors. Begin now to develop a mental strategy for strengthening your self worth.

What are the mental blocks in your golf game?

All golfers experience many emotions on the golf course. Emotions come from the thoughts in your head. Every time you experience an unpleasant emotion, it is a signal to change your thinking to bolster your self worth. Here are some ways you can change the way you think about how you play the game of golf so you won’t develop a mental block.

1. “Golf is a game I play for my own enjoyment. I am not concerned with what others might think of my game. Conversely, I am not concerned with how others play their game.”

2. “My physical game doesn’t reflect upon me as a person, but my reaction to it does reflect on me as a person. I always act like a champion even when my game goes south. I believe in my ability to play well.”

3. “I see the good in every shot. Mistakes are to learn from. The shots that don’t come off as I desire are for me to learn so I don’t make the same mistake again. I believe that golf is a game where I will mishit more shots than I hit perfect shots. I accept my misses, learn from them, let them go, and recover easily.”

4. “One missed shot isn’t a game breaker. I take enough time to recover well. There are many ways to score well after making a mistake.”

5. “I congratulate myself when I hit good shots. I feel the euphoric feeling deep within my being.”

6. “I trust my pre-shot routine and do it consistently for every shot. I am confident in what I decide to do.”

7. “All errors in golf are mental errors. My mind controls my golf swing. If I haven’t put the right information into my brain, my body won’t give me what I want. Garbage in garbage out.”

8. “The only part of my golf game I can control is myself. I take the time to prepare my mind for the results I desire.”

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How can I score more consistently?

There are many mental factors that make up a consistent round of golf, such as desire, realistic expectations, and confidence in your ability to perform. Consistency comes from practicing your skill until you are confident that you can execute the shot or putt. But physical practice is not enough. You must believe that you can do it time after time under all kinds of conditions. Mental conditioning is what separates the great players from the field.

1. The short game. 
To win you need to score lower than anyone else. It is necessary to practice the parts of your game that will lead to lower scores. Most golfers think that long drives will bring low scores by giving them birdie and eagle opportunities. This kind of thinking does not produce steadiness. In fact, most of the shots you hit are the ones that require less than a full swing. To score consistently, spend your practice time in this ratio:
63% short game: (chipping, pitching, sand shots, putting)
37% full swings from the driver through the wedge.

2. The preshot routine.
To be consistent you need to have a consistent preshot routine. Having the same routine on every shot enables you to play automatically letting your learned skills take over. The routine keeps your mind focused on the present moment. If you vary your routine from shot to shot you can expect inconsistent results. Program your mind so it is conditioned to do the same routine on every shot and putt.

3. Your Personality. 
Players who are consistent in the way they live their lives off the golf course will usually hit more fairways and greens than players who like to “grip it and rip it.” If you are a person who likes action rather than routine, you need to change your thoughts, attitudes and actions to program consistency rather than excitement. Instead of trying to hit the longest drive of your life on each hole, set a goal for yourself such as hitting 8 or 10 fairways. Instead of trying to get the most out of the club each time, take more club and swing smoothly to ensure hitting the greens.

4. Putting
Putting is a game within a game and can be up to 40% of your score. Develop a feel on the greens for consistency. Give every size putt the same amount of time and attention. Use the same pre-putt routine every time. Use the same tempo on every size putt. Believe in your ability to relax, roll the ball well, and feel the distance.

5. Percentage Golf.
Do not try to hit shots that you are indecisive about. For example, if you are having trouble hitting your driver in the fairway, drive with your 3-metal. Hit your 9-wood instead of a long iron if you have more confidence in it. If you aren’t hitting your irons well, take one more club hitting into the greens to avoid the bunkers in front of the green. If you aren’t confident about your bunker play, focus on relaxing to get the ball on the green instead of trying to get it close. Don’t hit any shots that you don’t own.

6. Remain Positive. 
Change any limiting beliefs you have about yourself and your game. Enhance your self-image by seeing yourself as the player you know you can be even though you miss a shot. Talk to yourself on the golf course positively seeing only the solution to each situation instead of thinking negatively about the “what ifs” that could happen.

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Good Golf Course Management

Before the golf season is in full swing, why don’t you take the time to analyze the holes at your home golf course? The golf course architect designed each hole with a specific purpose. If you look at the holes from the architect’s perspective, you might find a better way to play them.

Golf is a game where the position of your golf ball is vital for scoring. Without a strategy it is easy to beat yourself. Professionals have a plan to play each hole for the lowest possible score. With the plan in mind, they then focus by taking dead aim at each target, one shot at a time. 

In planning your strategy, visualize the entire hole and ask yourself the following questions:

  • What is the length of the hole?
  • Is the fairway wide or narrow?
  • Is it flat, undulating or sloping?
  • Is it straight away or a dog leg?
  • What is the yardage from the tee to the trouble (bunkers, water, trees, etc.)?
  • Where do I want to land my tee ball to avoid all the problems?
  • Is there trouble around the green (water, sand bunkers, trees behind, etc.)?
  • Is it better to hit short or long on this green?
  • What is the shape, slope, speed of the green?

You may have lots of talent, but if you don’t know how to think your way around the golf course, you aren’t going to play up to your potential. Here are some tips for managing your game:

  1. Play the percentages. Don’t expect to hit your best shot. Hit the shot that you can hit 75% of the time. Hitting to the center of the greens will give you more opportunities than hitting to the pins.
  2. Hit the ball in the fairway. Sometimes that is easier said than done. Know where the widest parts of the fairway are. Hit to the largest landing area. This may require using a 3-wood instead of a driver off the tee. Know exactly how far it is to avoid the fairway bunkers.
  3. Par 3’s: Know where to miss it away from any possible trouble spots. Plan to land the ball where you haven’t “short sided” the next shot. Give yourself the best angle to hit to the green. If the pin is on the left, tee your ball up on the right and vice versa.
  4. Par 4’s: Use the terrain of the hole to help you put the tee ball on a flat fairway lie. If you miss the fairway, knowing the layout of the hole will enable you to change your strategy for the best possible recovery.
  5. Par 5’s:  These longer holes give you one more chance to recover. If you have to lay-up, place the ball where you can hit a full shot and have a good opening into the green.

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Do you have a “yip” on your short putts?

The yips is a word used in sports to describe an affliction in the golf putting or chipping stroke, the balk in baseball, or any other sport where the body produces a nervous involuntary movement opposite to what the athlete intends. Athletes with the yips have an apparent unexplained loss of previous fine motor skills.

The first time I encountered the “yips” was when I was playing a round of golf at Seminole Golf Club, Florida. A +2 handicap golfer in my foursome jabbed at a 6-inch putt and missed the hole. From then on, he wasn’t able to make any short putts.

I have worked with golfers with putting yips, chipping yips, and one who froze and couldn’t get the club back down on his full swing.

Is this a common problem among golfers?

The yips affects between ¼ to ½ of all mature golfers. Golfers who have played more than 25 years seem to be most affected. Researchers at the Mayo Clinic did a study in 2012 and  found that 33-48% of serious golfers have experienced the yips. The yips ended the pro careers of Ben Hogan, Sam Snead and Lee Trevino. Tour players who have gone to alternative methods of putting have all struggled with the problem. It is a psycho-neuromuscular affliction.

The putting yips have been described as an involuntary movement of the arm, forearm, or wrist. Some golfers experience freezing over the ball with nervous twitches in the wrist causing flinching in their stroke. As the golfer hits the ball uncertainly with too much wrist action, the ball usually goes further past the hole than when it started.

The Neurological Factors

Can this condition in avid golfers be attributed to the overuse of a certain set of muscles? Gross motor skills involve movement of the larger muscles such as those used in the full golf swing. Fine motor skills are the small movements in the hands, wrists and fingers. It is believed that serious golfers who practice hitting full shots a lot are then not able to make the adjustment to a set of muscles required for the fine motor control of the putting stroke.

PGA Tour pros are seen using a different putting technique or new putters to avoid the overuse of those muscles used in their long game. Sam Snead putted croquet style until it was outlawed, and then he putted side saddle trying to alleviate his tremors. Possible strategies for stroking the putt are:

  • Change how you hold your putter. This works because different muscles are used in the putting stroke. For example, the claw grip takes the wrist action out of the stroke causing the shoulders to create a smoother, more consistent stroke. The goal is to maintain grip pressure for a smooth, even stroke that takes the hit out of the stroke.
  • Use a longer putter. Try different longer putters until you find one that is comfortable and works for you. The longer putter should stabilize your hands and wrists and use more of your shoulders and arms to allow you to roll the ball to the hole instead of hitting at it.

The Psychological Factors

Since stress, anxiety or pressure situations make the problem worse, the change of grip or putter needs to be used in conjunction with changing your mind set.

The yips are about fear. The golfer is consumed with the fear and can’t access his learned good technique and confidence. After missing what seem to be impossible-to-miss short putts, the golfer may experience one or more of the following fears.

  • Fear of embarrassment
  • Fear of looking ridiculous
  • Fear of missing a “gimme” length putt
  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of what others will think of him
  • Fear of letting others down
  • Fear of being inadequate

When the golfer mind is in this fear mode, the conscious brain thinks about mechanically trying to correct the stroke and is overly concerned with the result. Thinking too much about technique, the golfer tries to control the putting stroke. The result is that the freedom of the stroke is lost, the putt sabotaged, and the fear reinforced.

The golfer’s brain thus perceives short putts as a threat and the fear of missing takes over. In order to create a new neural pathway from the brain to the muscles, a whole new way of thinking has to be learned. The mental techniques of relaxation, affirmations, positive self- talk and visualization can help to reduce the anxiety and replace the fear of yipping.

If you have lost your trust and are experiencing the yips in your putting or chipping strokes, call Joan at 828.696.2547 for a complimentary 15-minute consultation. Also, available on the Positive Mental Imagery website is the compact disc “Confident Putting for Lower Scores.”

 

 

What is your attitude on the golf course?

Having a good attitude during a round of golf and in your everyday life is essential for success and happiness. Your attitude is just a habit of thought that you have put into your subconscious mind. Your attitude is reflected in your state of mind, your behavior, and your conduct which reflects your opinion or purpose.   

Professional positive attitudes  

Ben Hogan was a fantastic lover of the game of golf, and this was his attitude. He said,

“I have loved playing the game, and practicing it, whether the next day called for a tournament, or a trip to the practice range, the prospect that there was going to be golf in it made me privileged and happy. I couldn’t wait for the sun to come up the next morning to play the course again.” 

Tom Watson summed up his attitude by saying it never bothered him to miss a green because one of four things could happen, and three of them were good.

  1. He could hole the shot from off the green, or out of the bunker.
  2. He could hit it close and tap it in.
  3. He could hit it poorly and make a good putt, or
  4. He could hit it poorly and miss the putt.

Tom said if you added up all those scores, a birdie, two pars, and a bogey, it came to even par. So if you practiced your short game, you had nothing to fear. 

Bubba Watson changed his attitude for golf and his life  

With his Masters win, Bubba has climbed 8 places to No. 4 in the world golf rankings. It didn’t happen by accident. After Bubba finished 8th in China last year at the WGC-HSBC Champions tournament, his caddy Ted Scott urged him to improve his attitude and commit to a timetable to do it. Scott told him, “’Look, you give me this kind of focus on the golf course for the next six months, and rejoice in all the great things in your life, and let’s see where you will be in six months.”  

Bubba Watson has said that his first Masters win was as if he lucked into it. The year after the win he was involved with the adoption of his son Caleb and learning how to become a family man. In addition he was “learning how to be a great champion” dealing with the constant media and sponsor attention, the newly increased fame, and the pressure and expectations of proving himself. 

“What I had to do was learn how to work more efficiently,” Watson said. “If that meant 30 minutes a day on the range or 15 minutes on the range and 15 minutes putting, that’s what I needed to do. I need to be a dad and take care of my boy when my wife can rest. And then set a time a day when I have a week off, the time here; I’ve got 30 minutes here, I’ve got an hour here. So I just had to dedicate myself and be more efficient when I was practicing to get back to a level that I want to play at. It took me a year or so to get adjusted that I’m not really that good, I’ve got to keep practicing. Finally I got adjusted to it and here we are another green jacket after a year.” 

If you aren’t able to maintain a positive attitude on the golf course, email Joan at info@pmi4.com for a complimentary 15-minute consultation about developing a new strategy.

 

Drive, Chip and Putt Children Perform Like Pros

On Sunday, April 6th, the first National Drive, Chip and Putt Championship for 88 boys and girls was held on the hallowed rounds of Augusta National Golf Club. More than 17,000 youngsters from 19 states and the District of Columbia had participated in the qualifying process. The 88 boys and girls who made it through qualifying represented four age groups, 7-9, 10-11, 12-13, and 14-15.   

These kids are good 

The skills competition was pressure packed with crowds and media surrounding the DCP venues. It was amazing to see the levels of skill at such young ages. In the 14-15 division was a 14-year-old girl with a +2 handicap, and a 14-year-old boy with a +3 handicap.

Most of the youngsters voiced that they were somewhat nervous, but the fun and excitement of playing at Augusta National overrode the feeling of anxiety. They had been encouraged by their parents to have fun, stay positive, and to enjoy the experience. As each one performed, their poise, technique, discipline and positive mental attitude was evident.

They used imagery for pressure situations 

The Augusta practice facility was where the driving competition was held. The contestants each hit two drives to a 30-yard wide fairway.

Then they went to the chipping green for two chips, scoring points for closeness to the hole.

The putting competition involved two putts, one from 6 feet and a fast breaking downhill putt from 30-feet. Kelly Xu was the winner in the 7-9 division for girls. In preparation for putting on 13+ slick greens, she said she visualized putting on glass greens beforehand.

The final skills challenge was a putt on the 18th green from about 20 feet. The winner in the 10-11 division was 11-year-old Leo Cheng who drained his putt from the same spot where Adam Scott made birdie in last year’s Masters. Cheng said, “I just had a vision of Adam Scott making that putt.” 

Words of wisdom from the children

The winners in each division were presented with a trophy. They were then escorted into the press center where they were asked questions, just like Scott and Watson and O’Meara had been after they had won at Augusta. They responded: 

What club do you like best?  “The one I have in my hands.” 

What do you like best about playing golf? “The difference, creating each new shot.” 

I saw the line. I knew it was going to go in. (30 footer)

It felt good. (standing over the downhill 15-foot putt needed to win)

I don’t get nervous. I take everything as it comes.

I don’t know what to expect so I am just trying to stay calm. 

I was just excited to embrace the competition. 

The experience was just so perfect.

Poise, gratitude and a good mental attitude made for success

First winner of the day, 9-year-old Kelly Xu said, “I feel like I am really, really happy. I had a lot of fun today. All the other girls did really well today and I am really thankful for my friends and family and for their support and everything they have done.”

Kelly said she watched the Bobby Jones’ movie, “Stroke of Genius” many, many times. “From the movie, I learned that it takes patience to play golf. You win some. You lose some. You can’t expect to win them all. If you practice a lot and don’t get angry, you just have to make mistakes sometimes. It takes mistakes to learn,” she said.

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What does your body language say about your golf game?

The way you position your body and the way you use your body before and after golf shots affects your performance. The way you physically show yourself to the outside world is called non verbal language. Your brain understands your body language and will produce results from the meaning of that information.

It is important to understand this physical language because 55% of the way we communicate is through body language. The other 45% is made up of 38% by your tone of voice, and only 7% through the use of words. Most people are aware that if you are talking to someone who has their arms folded across their chest, they are resisting what you are saying.

This non verbal 55% communication in golf encompasses your posture, facial expressions, eye movement, and the speed and form of your movements. Body language is created by the thoughts you are having, just like your emotions do. Non verbal gestures and body positions indicate your state of mind.

Give positive congruent messages to your body

If you are getting ready to putt and notice that someone is standing in your line, do you tell yourself it won’t bother you, and don’t ask them to move? Your focus is now on the annoying situation instead of focusing on your putt. The end result is that your body has reacted to the second thought of annoyance rather than to the original thought that it wouldn’t bother you. The result is usually a miss directed putt.

Putting requires a relaxed state of mind and body. You cannot be physically relaxed and mentally tense, or mentally relaxed and physically tense at the same time. When you are playing at your best, your mind is relaxed, alert and focused, sending positive messages to your body.

Your body language reveals much of the way you are feeling. When you have lost your confidence and are not achieving successful results on the golf course, be aware of the following body language.

  • Out of balance when swinging your club
  • Shaking your head from side to side
  • Jittery hands resulting from anxious thoughts
  • Nervousness causing an increased heart rate
  • Tension in your neck and shoulders after missing a shot
  • Showing disgust by slumping your shoulders
  • Banging a club into the ground
  • Holding too tightly on to the club
  • Looking down and using negative self talk
  • Standing with hands on hips showing lack of control, annoyance 

When you are confident and achieving successful results on the golf course you will be doing the following:

  • Deep relaxed breathing for mental focus
  • Good posture by holding your head up and shoulders back
  • Sitting erect in the golf cart instead of slumping
  • Walking with an even jaunty step, arms swinging leisurely in pace with your legs
  • Smiling with facial expressions of relaxed enjoyment
  • Eyes looking ahead at eye level instead of down at the ground
  • Good grip tension; soft hands for chipping and putting
  • Standing relaxed with arms at your sides while waiting 

What are the messages you are sending to your brain; weakness or strength, confidence or self-pity, smart or dumb, centered or out-of-balance, analytical or creative, courageous or fearful, relaxed or tense, feeling big or small, proud or defeated, loose or tight, frustrated or having fun?

To improve your golf performance, send only positive body language messages to your brain.

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How can I recover after hitting my ball into the water?

Florida golf courses are noted for vast bodies of water and sand. When you dig a hole in the sand it fills up with water because the ground is at sea level. Add some wind, and the water comes into play often unless you have control of your ball flight, and your emotions.

At the Valspar Championship in Palm Harbor, Florida on March 14th, 47-year-old John Daly, winner of two major championships, made a 12 on the 475-yard Innisbrook 16th hole after hitting into the water three times. After his drive and two 3-wood shots landed in the water, he played it safe hitting well to the left of the water, and then shanked his 7-iron well right of the green. Big John then took three chips to reach the green and missed a four-foot putt for a 12. He scored a career-high 90.

JD has made a 10 or worse 16 times and has shot 80 or worse 62 times on the PGA Tour.

One week later at the Arnold Palmer Invitational at the same hole where John Daly once made an 18, Bubba Watson drove three balls in the water off the 6th tee. The 2012 Master champ recorded an 11, leading to a final score of 83 and a withdrawal after the first round.

How do you keep from having these kinds of meltdowns? 

Step away and take a mental mulligan. Mental errors are created by not thinking the shot through. Most golfers repeat errors because they are consumed by their emotions. In their hurry to override the feelings of embarrassment, disappointment, insecurity, etc. golfers don’t take the time to prepare adequately for the next shot.

Here is a strategy for preparing your mind and body to recover from a missed shot:

  • Instead of thinking how you can make up for the miss on your next shot, ask yourself what you have learned from it.
  • What was my last thought before I swung?
  • Slow down your thinking and pre-shot routine and breathe deeply.
  • Take the time to swing your club until you access the tempo you wanted.
  • Replace the emotions with the new good feeling of a fluid tempo.
  • Play your percentage shot. Resist the urge to hit another “Tin Cup” shot.
  • Be realistic about the distance you can hit your clubs.
  • Focus your thoughts and mental pictures on where you want the ball to go, not on what you want to avoid.
  • Keep your swing thoughts simple. It is better to focus on tempo, rhythm, the target and basic strategy instead of getting involved with swing mechanics. 

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Patrick Reed showed us his plan for winning

23-year-old Texan Patrick Reed won the WGC Cadillac Championship at Trump National Doral by laying up twice in the final round to safely win by one stroke. Patrick has been winning since he went 6-0 in NCAA match play leading AugustaState to two national championships.

Reed has already won 3 times since turning pro two years ago. He has climbed to 20th in the world ranking and believes he is a top 5 player who can’t be beaten when he plays his best. After his victory he didn’t rest on his laurels. Reed said, “I can’t wait to get back out and play and try to get my fourth.”

He plans his game and plays to his plan 

  • Work ethic: He developed his game and his self confidence by practicing from  8:30am to 5:00pm five days a week when he was at home.
  • Makes his own decisions: He switched from a 45-inch to a 43-inch driver for more accuracy that didn’t compromise his length.
  • No fear: He has a fearless mentality. When he is in contention, he is not afraid.
  • Mental edge: He believes he is twice as good as he is.
  • Has a closer’s mentality: “I’m going last,” he told his coach at the NCAA. “I always want everything on my shoulders.”
  • Red shirt outfit: Pros don’t wear red shirts on Sunday because Tiger does. Reed wears his red shirt and black pants on Sunday out of respect because he wants to emulate “the best player ever to live when I was growing up.” 

Like Patrick Reed, create your mental game with a no fear of results mentality by believing in your abilities. Belief is the surest road to success.

A plan for springtime golf 

If you live in the northern half of the country, due to the severe winter, the golf courses will be slow to return to their mid-summer conditions. Take a hint from nature and plan your return to the game by creating it one step at a time to develop your confidence.

  1. Swing at 75% effort. Your golf muscles need to be activated slowly.
  2. Breathe deeply before every shot to relax your mind and body.
  3. Practice your pre-shot routine until it is a habit. Be diligent and use it before every shot and putt.
  4. Lower your expectations. Do not expect to play like you did at the end of the summer. Making progress is the plan.
  5. Keep the ball in play. Play target golf.  Focus on hitting fairways, greens and the cup. 

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What is your strategy for playing Spring golf?

After a cold and snowy winter, golfers are anxious to get out on the links on the first warm, sunny day. Without preparation the day could turn from joy to frustration very quickly. Winners win in advance. They know how to direct their thoughts.

To have a consistently strong mental game means you need to prepare your thoughts and strategy long before you get to the golf course. Spring is a good time to look at your emotional strategy so it will carry a good mental game through the summer.

In order to play for consistently low scores, it is mandatory to control your level of emotions while playing golf. Your emotions are affected by your beliefs. It is not possible to have a feeling without first experiencing a thought. You are the only one who thinks in your head. You alone control what thoughts enter into your data bank. You have the power to choose what thoughts you want to own. Your thoughts create your reality.

  • Emotions are a natural result of being human.
  • Feelings are how we choose to interpret those emotions.
  • Feelings are the result of your thoughts.
  • You have control over the thoughts in your head.
  • Therefore, you have control over your emotions by choosing your thoughts wisely. 

Good results come from making good decisions.

Good decisions come from when you are in a positive state of mind.

Bad results come from making bad decisions.

Bad results come from when you are in a negative state of mind.

Stress happens when your game doesn’t meet your expectations and you don’t manage your reaction.

Expectation is the root of all heartache.
– William Shakespeare

The way we perceive what happens to us is a major factor in being successful.

Focusing on the negative comes easier to your brain.

Focusing on the positive comes easier to your heart.

Play from your heart by remembering why you love to play golf.

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